Which is it?

Looking into his eyes.
You can see him looking back at you.
You know he feels it.
You know it's there.
When he touches you, the world around you disappears.
When he speaks your name, nothing else matters.
He makes the world okay.
He'd do absolutely anything for you.
He spoils you absolutely rotten and says he absolutely loves doing so.
He says he does it just so he can see you smile.
He tells you he loves you every single day.
When he wraps his arms around you, he melts you into a puddle.
Your heart races and the butterflies feel like they will make your stomach burst.
He tells you how amazing you are, how smart you are, how talented you are.
He tells you how absolutely beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have you.
He says he's so lucky to have you -- LUCKY!!
Yet.....
He doesn't want anyone to think you are a couple.
He says he's not sexually attracted to you.
He says you're nothing more than friends.
At the same time he gets VERY jealous if you spend your time with other guys.
He says he loves you more than he knows how to explain or knows how to admit to himself.
Is he afraid or is he a user?